Sadly, sometimes in a long-term relationship, we realize one day that we’ve gotten too comfortable and the romance is gone. You can change that by learning how to keep mystery in a relationship!
- Be romantic: leave a love note where your honey will see it, surprise them with flowers or a romantic dinner, send them a text telling them you are thinking about them. Little gestures can go a long way towards keeping the romance exciting!
- Set aside a date night to reconnect: day-to-day life often takes over and it can be seen as more of a chore to go out, but scheduling dates with your significant other gives you both something to look forward to and can provide a romantic spark.
- Make an effort with your appearance: there is an old song that talks about putting on your makeup because he’ll soon be home. Sure, it’s sexist, but it’s also true (for both of you!) – if you both let yourselves go, it sends a subtle signal that your partner isn’t really “worth” the time to make yourself look decent for them.
Our relationship coaching services can help you learn more about how to keep mystery in a relationship! Call Barbara and Nancy at Elegant Introductions today at 305-615-1900 or contact us for more information.