The first few dates with someone new can be tricky: you want to get to know them better, but you don’t want to waste your time doing so if they aren’t the right person for you. Obviously these dates are the time when you need to ask questions to get an idea of your relationship compatibility. The problem is that asking a lot of questions can make a first or second date turn into more of an interview. Instead of cross-examining your date, think about asking these types of questions as part of a good conversation. Have them in the back of your mind and work one or two into the topic you are discussing. That way, you can get an idea of the person’s future potential without scaring them off!
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